For some reason, it seems to many women that you can close your eyes to some unforgivable things and put up with them for the sake of children and love for your husband, but they do not understand that with such behavior they make themselves worse, including their kids, because they are in fact, they see more than we think and learn from us to be human. If your husband is aggressive, don't be surprised if your child becomes just like him. But in order not to bring yourself to such a difficult life state, it is better to initially choose the right man, and here I will tell you what to pay attention to in the first place.
I will list 3 main things that cannot be ignored, and if your man expresses these emotions very often, you should think about your choice.
Cruelty and aggression
Such behavior, not only towards you, but also towards others, is simply unacceptable. If you notice that your man kicks the dog or responds aggressively to a homeless person, it is best to stay away from him. It is possible that such a person is able to raise his hand to you as well.
Of course, we are not talking about a few glasses during your romantic evening. I'm talking about a serious incorrigible condition, or rather: if you see your man always drunk, and he sees no reason to refuse it, then it is better not to waste time trying to convince him and make him better. Better to get away from him quietly before it's too late.
Being rude and disrespectful towards your friends or family members
How your man treats your family and your friends is very important. If he doesn't respect them, then something is clearly wrong with him. Believe me, if he really loves you, he will try in every way to please your loved ones. Do not let your man treat them badly, but if he does not fix it, then it is better not to waste time simply.