Intimacy is perhaps the best thing that you can experience with your loved one. Sometimes, in order to achieve it, you have to spend a lot of time with this person, you have to literally develop this notorious feeling of comfort, the unstressed state when you are both naked. Sometimes intimacy, despite having sex, never comes. The reasons are different, including the simple sexual incompatibility of partners.
Psychologists consider this point one of the main reasons leading to divorce and breakup. And here's what it says about your sexual compatibility:
You feel comfortable without clothes next to your partner
If you are sexually compatible, then you do not feel embarrassed when you are naked. You do not strive to dress or wrap yourself in a sheet after intimacy - you are comfortable in any form next to this person.
You are completely honest with each other and calmly talk about your sexual desires
When the relationship reaches a certain level, all boundaries fall away. You can calmly talk about your fantasies, and this does not bother you at all. And him too.
You talk about sex without feeling awkward
Surprisingly, intimacy most often means not sex itself, but a calm and confident conversation about it. Many couples feel insecure when it comes to sex, so they prefer not to talk about it at all. Couples are sexually compatible, on the contrary, I feel comfortable and confident no matter what is at stake.
